You may not become famous, but you will be remembered. Be kind and make them good memories.

Posted in Uncategorized on July 12, 2018 by Cat

You may not have a choice over the steps you take or the load you carry, you may encounter detours or roadblocks, you may never even reach your intended destination.

But, as long as you’re on life’s journey, you can choose to avoid trampling on the flowers. Let others know that you care, share your hopes, and savor the pleasure of each moment.

Be thankful.

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40 Cat Quotes That Are Brutally True

Posted in Uncategorized on June 30, 2018 by Cat

Here is a very handy list.

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40 Cat Quotes That Are Brutally True

Today I did spend some time to search for cat quotes. I found hundreds of them but wrote down my favorite ones. What I like about quotes is that they are often so true. I wanted to create a list of the best cat quotes as I never done something similar on my blog. This is not only a list of funny cat quotes, they are additionally also brutally true quotes and some of them really made me laugh. Hope you will enjoy the list, hope it will make you smile too…

1. Time spent with cats is never wasted. Sigmund Freud

2. As every cat owner knows, nobody owns a cat. Ellen Perry Berkeley

3. Any household with at least one feline member has no need for an alarm clock. Louise A. Belcher

4. Cats are intended to teach us that not everything in nature has a purpose. Garrison…

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Stuff and Self

Posted in Autobiography, Journaling, Spirit Food with tags , , , , , , on May 16, 2018 by Cat

I have an app that allows me to load my own affirmations and photos into it and it delivers every morning. I never know which combination of photo and quote I’m going to get…this one made me laugh.

The house looks like a peeling, rusting, slapped-together shack. But what a view of paradise!

At my advancing age, I may be wiser, but I still need reminding that comparing myself to others is nothing but a painful waste of time. They aren’t me and I’m not them, and that’s okay. I must constantly say to myself, “Shake off these thoughts of things that you can’t change and enjoy what’s right in front of you!” I worry too much about the material world. Nearly all of my peers seem to be doing so much better than I am.

But, my house is only where I sleep. My home is in this gloriously beautiful world!

Counting success by my material gains is ridiculous, anyway. Stuff doesn’t last, despite buying the extra warranty! I’ve lost so many things that I can still see in my mind’s eye, as if I could reach out and touch them — but they’re gone. I moved around a lot, was robbed and burgled, flooded out and had a house fire. That I have anything from my past is a marvel!

Yet, each loss led to the accumulation of way more stuff. In fact, as I think of more I’d like to get, I’m sitting amidst So. Much. Stuff. Material things are a burden, anchoring me to a state of perpetual unhappiness and stagnation. I’m aware if this, but you wouldn’t know it if you saw my house.

However, life is a learning process that doesn’t end until I do. Every day, I can try to simplify. Every day I can do something, no matter how small, to make things better. I don’t have to define myself by the opinions of those who contribute nothing to my life.

I’ve survived so many mistakes and so many dark times when I wanted to give up. But, I’ve also gone on to have achievements, small and large, that I’m proud of. Those memories are worth hanging on to, not the loss of all those things that I obviously could live and thrive without, and not the wrong decisions and stupid utterances that haunt my thinking with self-accusations as I try to sleep.

I will stop that! Out, damned thoughts! If I’m going to appreciate all I have, I have to stop looking inward and open my eyes to the potential for joy that’s all around me.

Success isn’t a static state. My greatest success will be found in the here and now, happy with what I have, and putting all my talents and energies to good use.

That, to me, is a successful life!

Flexibility and Creativity: Essential Survival Skills

Posted in Uncategorized on May 12, 2018 by Cat

“The green reed which bends in the wind is stronger than the mighty oak which breaks in a storm.” ~ Confucius


In a windstorm, the inflexible oak may split and be uprooted, while the reeds can bend low, allowing the wind to sweep through them. When the winds pass, the reeds can stand tall again and live on.

We aren’t vegetation, but flexibility is still essential to survival, happiness, and success. If someone opposes us or if something disrupts our progress, we can’t allow that to break us down and destroy our dreams. We can’t always force things, but that doesn’t mean we should give up, or that our desires and goals are meaningless.

The Tao Te Ching reads: “The hard and strong will fall, the soft and weak will overcome.” The translation from 5th century Chinese uses the words, ‘soft’ and ‘weak’ — insults in modern culture. But, in this case, they describe strengths!

Flexibility and creativity have allowed humans to flourish despite many hardships over the centuries. Those traits even translate into better health outcomes and longer lives. But, most importantly, using them can raise your spirits after the devastation of hitting a brick wall.

When I was a child, my extended family gathered one day to slaughter the hogs. I saw the adults gathering rocks to make a fire and tried to do the same. I quickly discovered that I couldn’t pick up rocks of those size. But, determined to help, I realized that they could roll and began pushing the rock down the path with my foot.

My uncle stopped me and told me that I wasn’t strong enough, but I told him, “I’m not strong enough, but my foot is!” My child’s mind was still flexible enough to think my way around a problem.

As we age, that mental flexibility often gets stomped out of us and we begin believing “I can’t,” instead of “There must be a way.” We need to rewrite our inner thoughts and change them from “I give up” to “I’ll think about it.” Being flexible assures us that our plans may need modifications, but our goals can remain intact.

“Where there’s a will, there’s a way.” Don’t lose hope. While you still draw breath, your story isn’t over.

Irish prime minister speaks at SXSW, cuts the ribbon for new consulate in Austin

Posted in Uncategorized with tags on March 15, 2015 by Cat

Annually inserting St Patty’s Day amidst SXSW was not a coincidence: the Irish PM cut the ribbon for Austin’s new Irish consulate on Sundsy.

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In the midst of Sunday’s SXSW Interactive hoopla downtown, Irish Prime Minister Enda Kenny cut the ribbon on a new consulate in Austin, citing the city’s tech opportunities and growth as primary forces behind Ireland’s outreach here.

Officials cut the ribbon for a new Irish consulate in downtown Austin Friday. From left with scissors, Irish Prime Minister Enda Kenny, Austin Mayor Pro Tem Kathie Tovo and Irish Consul General Adrian Farrell. Officials cut the ribbon for a new Irish consulate in downtown Austin Friday. From left with scissors, Irish Prime Minister Enda Kenny, Austin Mayor Pro Tem Kathie Tovo and Irish Consul General Adrian Farrell.

“This city is really growing so fast, but it’s also a cauldron of research and ideas and innovation,” Kenny said at the reception at the new Ireland House on the 17th floor of the Bank of America building.

Kenny pointed out that like Austin, Ireland has bucked the economic trend of its part of the world in recent years, emerging from crisis to become the fastest growing economy in Europe. It has become a fertile investment ground for U.S…

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The White Ones Had Blue Eyes

Posted in Autobiography, Horror, Horror with tags , , , , on August 29, 2012 by Cat
The Pig Slaughter

The Pig Slaughter

It was late evening in autumn, before the darkness fell. The corn had been harvested and dead stalks stood skewed and broken in the fields. I saw my grandfather in silhouette against the pastel sky, deepening blue and rose. He carried a rifle.

The tractor wheels had dug into the rain-sodden ground earlier that summer, matting the grass in ruts which were knee-deep for me. Grandma clutched my small hand, tugging me along behind her on the overgrown path. Aunt Bernie walked ahead of us with the men, clinging like a shadow to Uncle Silas. We heard voices as we approached the barn, and I saw the men waiting by the shed where the pigs were penned. As my grandfather joined them, I saw his black eyes glitter in the dark.

I visited the pigs every chance I had since they’d been unloaded off the livestock truck last spring. As the summer passed, they quickly fattened up from lively little piglets with tiny hooves to become plump young pigs, nearly bigger than me, with hooves that still seemed impossibly small to support their heavy, round bodies. I’d stand on the fence rung and laugh as they cavorted around their pen, gobbling at every scrap of food in their trough and rooting around in the mud and straw with their clever little snouts. Covered with coarse hair, their soft, pink skin glowed through the bristles. My favorite was one of the white ones, it had blue eyes like mine. But I hadn’t seen them in months, now they were fully-grown and it was coming on winter.

Approaching the pen, I flinched as they threw their enormous weight against the walls of the pen, expecting to be fed. I took a quick step back and felt Grandma move up behind me. She gripped my shoulders with her strong, broad hands, pulling me tightly to her. I couldn’t move. Staring at the tall weeds around the pen, I remembered the last time I’d visited the pigs, after the first cold snap. Hidden in the grass next to a post, I found the body of the old farm tabby cat, stiff and shriveled in her fur coat. At first I didn’t what I was seeing, and then I ran, crying, to tell my grandmother of my first encounter with death. I was afraid to visit the pigs after that.

The men worked together skillfully. One by one, the pigs were snared and led out. One by one, my grandfather pressed them to the ground, using all his weight to hold them still, while Uncle Silas carefully placed the rifle barrel to the head. The pig’s eyes darted around suspiciously, snout snuffling the air. A shot rang out, and with a piteous squeal, the pig quivered and sank onto the straw.

Binding the hind legs with wire clothesline, they hoisted the pigs over a beam, the men straining together to heft the dead weight. It was over so fast, I realized I’d been holding my breath. Chest aching, I sucked air into my lungs hungrily, I felt dizzy. Grandma set me down on a mound of grass while she walked back to the trailer to fetch her big aluminum washtub.

The rope dug into their ankles as they spun and rocked, their tender bellies exposed. Handles clanking, Grandma toted her big tub, just as she did for my baths in the evening. She set it beneath the swaying pig, and my grandfather and uncles set to work, cutting the pig from crotch to gullet, letting the soft organs pour into the tub. The smell of blood was overwhelming, sweet and cloying. Cleaned out, they let the carcass hang, steam coming up from the warm insides as the dragged the tub under the next to give it the same treatment.

I wanted to get away from the smell, but as I stepped in the dim light from the lamp hanging from the barn doorway, it seemed there were tattered remains of pig everywhere. While the adults worked, talking about filling the freezer for winter, my cousins whooped and hollered in the field, running around barefoot like wild savages in the moonlight, terrorizing each other with scraps of innards and collapsing in quivering piles of laughter. Hurling the bladders like water balloons, they dodged each other, and I all at once, I was caught in the middle as a bladder missed its intended target, landing at my feet and burst, the fumes rising and stinging my eyes and nose with ammonia.

I must have cried. The last thing I remember is being led quickly away by the hand, washed and dressed in my long flannel nightgown and tucked firmly between stiff, clean sheets, the weight of crazy-quilt comforters weighing me down. The clock in the kitchen ticked but I couldn’t hear anything else. I tried to stay awake, staring out at the moon shining through my window for a long time, worrying about how much longer I’d be in the dark house alone, but fell asleep long before my grandparents finished their labors and came to bed.

I don’t remember any dreams. The last connected memory I have of that time is of my grandmother preparing dinner one evening. She needed some lard for the frying pan, so she went to the freezer and took out the pig’s head she kept wrapped tightly in a plastic bag. Setting it on the table, she pulled the wrappings off, took her butcher knife and began to slice down, peeling the skin away from the fat, exposing a blue eye that stared at me lidlessly.

Hello world!

Posted in Autobiography, Blogs, Great Writers, Journaling with tags , , , , , , , , , , , , , , on May 3, 2012 by Cat
Catriona Lovett Castellan

Cat dining at Mi Tierra in San Antonio, 2010.

I’m new here, let me introduce myself to you. My name is Cat. I’ve tried a number of sites in the blogosphere, I’m hoping this will be the right venue for me. I plan to use this site for more serious work…as opposed to the fooling around I do everywhere else on the web!

The title “Cat’s Game” is referring to the likely outcome between equally-matched players of Tic-Tac-Toe. Not the most challenging of games for adults, but it was from this game I first learned the value of strategy. I don’t play much Tic-Tac-Toe anymore. Perhaps I should start, because my strategizing skills are sorely lacking!

I’ve done everything in my life out of order it seems. But at least I’ve lived hard and well, for the most part. I’ve gotten to do a lot in my life. Approaching 60, four kids grown or nearly so, all the insults and injuries have finally slowed me down. I may never climb trees, scale mountains, or skateboard again, but I’m not hanging it up yet. I now  have time to cultivate other dreams.

They say being a writer is the single career path where you  may find greater prowess as you age, I sure hope that’s so. I have a lot to say. I began a book inspired by real life events and a dream about 18 years ago, I’d really like to finish it, as well as some other projects which have been percolating in my brain over the years.

This looks like a nice neighborhood. Guess I’ll stick around and see if the HOA doesn’t mind the way I tend my lawn…it may get a little untidy: I have some big shoes I aim to fill!

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